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The Approach-Avoidance Cycle in Relationships

Dec 6, 2012

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in attachment, avoidance, dating, distancing, friendship, love, pursuit, relationship

The Approach-Avoidance Cycle involves a dynamic where one partner (the pursuer) seeks more closeness while the other (the distancer) withdraws, creating tension. This pattern can manifest in various relationship issues, risking long-term damage. Early recognition and intervention by a professional can help break the cycle and improve relationship satisfaction.
Finding Balance in Relationships

Oct 1, 2011

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in assertiveness, balance, friendship, giving, love, partners, relationship, responsibility, too nice

Most of us understand that being repeatedly selfish, cruel and neglectful in relationships is a sure way to destroy them. But, did you know you can also kill a relationship with kindness? If you have been told you are “too nice”, you may be inadvertently skewing the balance of equity required for healthy adult relationships.…
Destructive Relationships

Oct 1, 2010

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in abuse, basic needs, couples, dating, friendship, love, marriage, partners, relationships

Most people learn how to be in relationships from the people they grew up with and if you had destructive role models, there is a chance you might find yourself in a similar situation as an adult. Sometimes people wind up repeating a cycle they witnessed or experienced as youngsters. Other times, in an effort…